Fake Friends vs Real Friends...Who Do You Have

Fake Friends vs Real Friends...Who Do You Have

Lacoyia Eure
5 minute read

The Internet is filled with friendship sites and friendships that end with a click of a mouse or two. There are many people that end up in friendship circles with people that they think they are friends with. Unfortunately, those people aren't friends at all. So how do you decide what type of person you want to spend time with?

 Here are a few tips to consider when you select the people you will trust with your true friendship. A true friend has your best interests at heart. If someone is attempting to harm you in any way, they do what they can to ensure you stay safe. They take the time to think about whether or not their actions will harm you or make you feel comfortable, and if it does, they make changes to avoid hurting you. This may be difficult for some people to do, but this is true friendliness.

 A Real Friend will always help if you need them. If you have problems, there's a good chance your friend will know how to help you through them. There's also a good chance that he or she will talk to others who might be able to help you with your problems.

 A True Friend also knows how to have fun. Some people are only out there for themselves and don't know how to have fun. A true friend knows that having fun is part of life and will always do whatever he or she can to keep you and other people happy.

 A true friend will always listen to you. Sometimes it can be difficult to find time to spend with friends and still keep up with all of the responsibilities in life. However, your friend will understand and be there for you to help you with anything you need. Don't be afraid to ask questions, and don't take offense if you're being criticized. In most cases, your friend's understanding is what will make a lasting friendship last.

 A true friend is also very forgiving. Although we all have hurt feelings, sometimes our actions cause us to feel hurt. It's important that you feel comfortable in your new friendship, because it's going to be with you forever.

 A Real Friend understands that your life is unique, and that you will need to be around other people in order to learn and grow as a person. A true friend understands that you're just one person, and that you have your own life to live, and that he or she will support you in all of your endeavors.

 A true friend is also honest, which is very important in a relationship. A lot of people can be dishonest to you, but a true friend knows that honesty is much more important than who they are able to lie to. They also won't use deception to get what they want. You want to be able to rely on a friend and know that your friendship is genuine.

 A good thing about having a real friend is that you will get to hear him or her complain about something in your life. It's nice to know that your friend is not perfect, and will admit when he or she made a mistake. This is great because it lets you know that you can expect mistakes from your friend, but at least you know that your friend is willing to work on the situation.

 A true friend is also patient. The key to making a good friend is building a solid foundation. You want to be able to trust your friend in order to make good decisions with him or her, and to build an easy, trusting relationship. One of the best ways to build a solid foundation is to talk to your friend about his or her likes and dislikes. As long as your friend can talk about their likes and dislikes, then you know that he or she listens to what you have to say, then he or she will trust you.

 Real friends take the time to really care about the people they are with. If you have a real friend that you haven't spoken to in years, then he or she will likely not think that you're important enough to call to tell you about all of the things that are going well in his or her life. Most people don't like to be told all the bad things in their lives, and a true friend won't give you this kind of attention. Instead, they will tell you that the good times outweigh the bad times.

 A true friend also is willing to listen to you when you want to share your thoughts and feelings. When you want to talk about something, it's easy to put off because you're busy doing something else. A true friend will be open to sharing, and listen, because you value his or her opinion.

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